I hope that I never become one of
those crazy parents that feel the need to fight with a coach or referee, or
force my kids into activities that they do not like or have no interest in, or
keep my kids so incredibly busy that they never grow an imagination. However, I
do strive to be a parent that fosters every talent and interest that my
children have. I like to think that I do a pretty good job of this right now,
Presley being only 10 months old is very interested in food…so I feed her…and
she never stops eating. She’s good at it, it makes her happy, and she has
learned to sign the word “more” when she’s cleared the whole bowl peas, half of
a chicken breast, and 8 raspberries off of her tray, oh and the pre-dinner
appetizer of cheerios. She really NEVER stops! Now, Ben’s a little more of a
challenge when it comes to nurturing his interests because they are often
ever-changing. Within a single week Ben
has been fascinated with baseball, Cowboys, TB cartoons (TV to most of us), hot
air balloons, his dog, playgrounds, Biano (most of us call this a Piano), and
his Woody doll (from Toy Story). So, you can imagine that it may be a little tough
to keep up, but most people with 3 year olds are riding in the same boat on
this one! There is one thing though, that has maintained Ben’s interest since
he was a baby…Music, especially live music. While so many kids would ignore a
live band or go about their business playing, Ben has always made himself front
row whenever possible. It’s always been a fight to leave the scene of live
music too, he would stay all night and just watch. Then he got a little bit
older, and the watching became dancing, and now that he’s 3 he’s back to being
shy to dance in public, but still makes himself front row to seize the sound
and rhythm. We still catch him bobbing his head to the music and it appears
that he has pretty good rhythm, much more than his father at least! Because we’ve
been able to let Ben be around live music, he’s also taken a love for playing
instruments. Move over Justin Bieber,
here comes Benji! For Christmas this past year, Ben received a shiny new
guitar from Santa. He loved it! A few weeks ago I found a keyboard (Biano) for
$0.25 at a yard sale, I couldn’t pass it up. He enjoys this too, and so does
lil Presley! Amazing how two children produced from two “musically challenged”
individuals have such a fond interest in instruments and music! I’m about 107%
positive that they’ll be the next big singing duo in 15 years. I hope that the
interest in music is something that lasts, we love watching and listening to
our little rock stars!
(singing "You've got a Friend in me")
(Part of the Rawhide themesong...minus all of the other words)
(After this, he was invited on stage...he played the drums)
Love love love these years!
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